Category: Books

  • Passionate Marriage (in 6 Simple Steps)

    Couples’ lit spotlight: Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships, by sex/relationship therapist, David Schnarch. The book samples actual sex therapy sessions to make its case. Don’t care to read 400 pages about how differentiation?  Try the six-point plan linked from Schnarch’s website, posted here minus the explanations: Operate from the Best in Yourself. Sustain…

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  • Stopping Pain Without Drugs

    Here’s a quick interview with Dr. Vijay Vad, author of “Stop Pain.”  He suggests exercise for chronic pain.  Not quite on the stress illness bandwagon, but in its neighborhood: I have seen a big explosion in chronic back pain and arthritis, and what I realized is that people have very limited self-help options. In the…

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  • Stress Illness Symptoms

    Sometimes chronic pain and illness, wrestled with over months and years, are finally found to be rooted in stress and tension.  For some, just considering that idea can help bring relief. Here’s Dr. David Clarke’s list of common stress-related symptoms, taken from his book, They Can’t Find Anything Wrong!: 7 Keys to Understanding, Treating, and…

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  • Therapy Books

    These are books you may find useful, whether or not you’re in therapy. Most are practical, and several are workbooks, which work best when you actually do the exercises and don’t just read about them, a distinction most of us learn the hard way. The last two are about meaning and about therapy itself. Anxiety…

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  • Cut Off from the Neck Down

    A big excerpt from Daniel Siegel’s “Mindsight” is up at wheretheclientis.com.  Dr. Siegel is a prolific brain science-meets therapy-meets mindfulness writer, based at UCLA.  PR says: • Is there a memory that torments you, or an irrational fear you can’ t shake? • Do you sometimes become unreasonably angry or upset and find it hard…

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